“Become Your Best You” – Alana Leone

When you operate with a fixed mindset, there are a few elements that come into play. One of the first is how you talk to yourself. In a fixed mindset, your self-talk tends to have a negative aspect to it. Time and again, you tell yourself that was a stupid decision. You ask yourself “Why did you think you could do that?” or “Don’t take the risk!” There is a lot of “No, no” and “Wait, wait” throughout that list.

Plus, when your self-talk is full of negativity, and on a constant repeat, then you quickly begin to believe what you are telling yourself. A vicious cycle starts, one that cannot stop unless you make a conscious effort to do so.

That self-talk also impacts your reality. After all, if you think you are not capable, then your subconscious mind is going to seek out the evidence of that from your surroundings. It reinforces that negativity.

Your subconscious mind is listening to the words you say. It believes that these words are what you want. That is why I cannot say it enough: Think and say what you want, not what you don’t want. I catch myself doing this all the time. I frequently ask myself, “Is that what I want? If not, then change it right now!” Once you spend time focused on the positive or what you want, then you will see it leak out of your mind through your mouth. Then it moves from your mouth to your actions. It is a beautiful sight and sound. Once you experience it over and over, you feel amazing.

When you push through a negative mindset, you make the conscious choice to focus your thoughts around a positive viewpoint. There are many tools for your toolbox in the world today, and you have to be willing to use them. You gain the discipline to keep on top of it. Look at football or any sport you love. The coach is there every game and every practice to push through negative mindsets and motivate the team. The coach doesn’t come at the first part of the year to give the team a pep talk and then nothing the rest of the year! He constantly pushes and reminds the team, “You got this!”

How can you make these new decisions? The first part of any new strategy is recognizing what decisions to eliminate. Recognize that eliminating one negative decision or belief means another positive decision of belief must replace it. Otherwise, within the vacuum, your old ways are likely to return.

Shifting your thinking is about pushing yourself to identify those unproductive patterns within your subconscious way of thinking and shifting them into what you desire. Often the best way to address limiting decisions and beliefs is through a conscious dig into your past.

Past experiences and decisions create limiting decisions and beliefs. I have good news, you can change all that.

I am a Certified Coach and have my NLP Certification, Train the Trainer Certification, Mentor Certification, Mastermind Facilitator Certification, Advanced Coaching, Certified Facilitator, Improv and last was Stand Up Comedy .

If you still have that glimmer of light inside you to build your dreams and transform them into reality, then you are in the right place!

“Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure. It is our light, not our darkness that most frightens us. We ask ourselves, “Who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous, talented, fabulous?” Actually, who are you not to be? You are a child of God. Your playing small does not serve the world. There is nothing enlightened about shrinking so that other people won’t feel insecure around you. We are all meant to shine, as children do. We were born to make manifest the glory of God that is within us. It’s not just in some of us; it’s in everyone. And as we let our own light shine, we unconsciously five other people permission to do the same. As we are liberated from our own fear, our presence automatically liberates other.” – Marianne Williamson

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My purpose as the Pushy Coach is to wake people to see and take action on their visions and goals.


I work to develop a vision, coach you to take action and help you to push through it.


My mission is to share freedom with the world starting with one person at a time!


Your dreams can be your reality. I am proof of it.


I am living my dream and I want you to join me.


My vision as a coach is to get people to see what is holding them back from their destiny.


My desire is to open people’s minds to their possibilities. Rise above to win freedom.


This work is for all people that want to move a further in their lives.


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